So, I said I would be addressing a different topic this week, but I am postponing that topic to address something that I found intriguing from one of my other classes on resilient children. "How well children respond to setbacks depends largely on how well their parents helped them develop the attitudes and the skills of resilience. Life is full of trials. The Lords says that He has chosen us "in the furnace of affliction (Isaiah 48:10), and that we will be "tried, even as Abraham" (D&C 101:4), and that adversity will "give [us] experience, and shall be for [our] good" (D&C 122:7). Lyle J. Burrup. After hearing this, we have a responsibility as parents to help our children be able to be resilient to these trials and learn how to be strong individuals.
This week we talked about risk and resilience. What does "At Risk"
mean? In class we learned that to be at risk is a behavior or
environment that are strongly linked to negative outcomes. What are
some of those behaviors? Poverty, low birth weight, and lack of
education are some that were mentioned in class. I liked our discussion
that talked about some of the at risks factors for those that were in
poverty and low birth weight. These could include the following:
developmental lags, more susceptible to illness, crime, violence, low
education, drugs and substance abuse, risky sexual relations, and single
parent homes. The best therapy for these "at risk" individuals is an
educated, well inform and involved parent. Something that affects
poverty more than all of these though is No Dad in the Home. Two parents that are engaged and involved are the best environment for them.